— Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
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There isn't anything better than realizing that you are surrounded by the positive support of people who see who you truly are, and remind you of that every single time you have a wave of insecurity staring you in the face.
I think about timing and the funny way that when you are walking the correct path there are helpful reminders along the way. And that when you finally decide that you have had enough, you get the reassurance that you are making the right decisions. You simply don't take any ones bullshit anymore.
I see now that maybe it isn't always a lesson for me, but a lesson for someone else and no matter what you put into any relationship, ultimately there is a breaking point. There is always a breaking point.
Timing is so important, because if it is the wrong timing, then it just isn't going to work. For whatever reasons the timing is off, it just is. You can't change it, you can't maneuver around it. You simply learn to roll with it. You take the events and you move on. You simply move on. You stop dwelling on what didn't work out, or what didn't happen, or who didn't say what they needed or wanted to say. And if you have chosen to express your feelings and have been responsible for your own thoughts and heart, then you did what you were supposed to do.
Pushing through doubt is uncomfortable. It is hard. Love is easy, life is hard. Two very different worlds. It's when you learn to combine the two with grace, and understand that until you find the right combination you wait patiently, that you grow.
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"Hope can be a powerful force. Maybe there's no actual magic in it, but when you know what you hope for most and hold it like a light within you, you can make things happen, almost like magic."
— Laini Taylor
Hope is a powerful force. But combine hope with believing and you have a magical combination. Hold on to hope, pay attention to timing, and forever be who you were intended to be. Take the time to listen to who you are, and what you are actually wanting and needing. Find the right combination, and pay attention, because sometimes we hope and wish for things, and that is okay. They are given to us, and like the funny and doubting humans we are, we let it go, or worse we destroy it. Only to wake up and realize what was lost. Don't let your imperfectly, perfect dream go. Otherwise you will live the rest of your life in regret. Pay attention, and don't let your ego or doubts from others control what you want for your life, and teach your children to live the same way. Ego keeps us from saying and doing the things we need to do in order to receive what was intended to be given. In the end, when you combine timing, hope, and your steadfast belief in the magic world we live in, you will come up with the most amazing blessings.
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Welcome to the uncomfortable journey of believing that what you are wanting is going to manifest. Welcome to the rest of your life when you decide that doubt isn't going to control your happiness. Welcome to the part where you decide that regret is much more painful than loving and losing.
Welcome the unknown, and you just might find that everything you have put into it, has came back tenfold. Welcome to simply, YOUR life.
If it isn't what you want, start changing that now, prepare yourself for the uncomfortable, and prepare yourself for the beauty of spontaneity and relationships that are exactly what you need and want.
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